b. 1812-01-01
d. 1890-01-08
Amelia Douglas, née Connolly, was a prominent Indigenous woman in colonial
Victoria. She was born on
1 January 1812 to
HBC Chief Factor
William Connolly and Cree Miyo Nipiy. In her childhood, Amelia Connolly was referred to by the Cree as ápihtawikosán (“mixed-blood”)
and by the Europeans and British as “half-breed;” however her skin was much lighter
than other “mixed-blood” children, thus meriting her the nickname of “little snowbird.”
In
1828, Amelia Connolly married
James Douglas, later governor of the colonies of
Vancouver Island and
British Columbia, at Fort James in what was known as a marriage
au façon du pays
(custom of the country). In
1839, they had a church marriage at
Fort Vancouver before finally settling at
Fort Victoria in
1849 with their four daughters. Once in
Victoria, Connolly-Douglas had two other children. When
James Douglas was knighted in
1863, Amelia Douglas became known to the public as “Lady Douglas.” Although she originally
kept to the
social background,
she became increasingly comfortable in her role as the governor's wife, winning the
hearts of many guests who visited the Douglas's home. One of Connolly-Douglas's contemporaries,
Lady Franklin, described her as having a
gentle, simple & kindly matter.
In their home in
James Bay, Connolly-Douglas took on a large role in managing the household — more so than what
is known in public discourse.
John S. Helmcken described her as a
very active woman, energetic, and industrious,
as she actively performed her role of maintaining the house and producing food. She continued in this role, and further grew in her “public persona,” after the death
of her husband. Widowhood, as historian Adele Perry describes, was a time of relative
independence and engagement in society for women. Conolly-Douglas's good standing
within society is clearly shown in her obituary upon her death on
8 January 1890; the
Daily Colonist described her as having
unvarying kindness
and
unostentatious Christian charity.
Historian Sylvia Van Kirk argues that, due to the acculturation and assimilation of
Indigenous cultures within the five founding families of
Victoria, Amelia Connolly-Douglas's history and memory went unnoted for many years. The husbands
of these women supported the process of acculturation, by educating their children
and wives in “British” culture. The intensifying racism in
Victoria by incoming settlers further influenced this process. New settlers saw the colony
as
deficient
for having leading officials who were married to Indigenous women; and they further
expressed their own unhappiness that Indigenous Peoples would rank higher than them
in the social hierarchy, such as Connolly-Douglas who held the position of the governor's
wife.
The history of Amelia Connolly-Douglas has been largely forgotten in modern discourse
due to the acculturation of Métis children into white society and in writings by historians,
like Hubert H. Bancroft, who disregarded these women, their cultures, and their influence
in early
Victoria society. However, recent scholars such as Van Kirk and Perry have shown that Connolly-Douglas
was held in high regard by her contemporaries and made her mark on society.
- 1. Sylvia Van Kirk, Tracing the Fortunes of the Five Founding Families of Victoria, BC Studies, no.115/116, (Winter 1997/98), p.152.
- 2. John D. Adams, Sugar Cane and Beaver Pelts, in Old Square Toes and His Lady: The Life of James and Amelia Douglas, (Horsdal and Schubert, 2001), p.5; Adams, Honeymoon, in Old Square Toes, p.28.
- 3. Van Kirk, Tracing the Fortunes, p.152.
- 4. Ibid. 162-162.
- 5. Adele Perry, Governors, wives, daughters, and sons, in Colonial Relations: The Douglas-Connolly Family and the Nineteenth-Century Imperial
World, (Cambridge University Press, 2015), p.146-147.
- 6. Ibid. 160; Death of Lady Douglas: Another of Victoria's Earliest Pioneers Passes Away, The Daily Colonist, January 9 1890, p.4.
- 7. Van Kirk, Tracing the Fortunes, p.150 and p.160.
- 8. Ibid. 176.